Sex, Love & Oils in the Bedroom

Do you want to spark up the romance in the bedroom? Learn about natural ways to heat things up! Oo, La, La...Just in time for Valentines Day! 

Essential oils have been used throughout history to increase sensuality and passion by helping provide a lovely ambiance, relieve emotional exhaustion, and even increase libido. Essential oils, used for this purpose, are typically used topically and aromatically. Different oils appeal to different people; it's all about the journey of discovery to find out which oils work best for you and your partner.
Essential oils assist and support the body on the physical, emotional and energetic levels. They assist in healing the heart, releasing limiting belief systems, increasing spiritual awareness and connection and inspiring the fulfillment of our life’s purpose. Using essential oils in the bedroom will add a whole new dimension to your sex life.

Top 10 Young Living oils for the Bedroom:


Made with coriander, ylang ylang, bergamot, jasmine and geranium, Sensation is alluringly fragrant and exotic. 
This romantic blend of oils is extremely uplifting, romantic and arousing. It has a seductive scent that can definitely be used as a perfume and is also nourishing to the skin. This blend has an alluring scent that was formulated to enhance the enjoyment of special moments. It can help amplify a little excitement and enhance your evening with your partner or spouse.

Use it to spray bedding or pillows to set the mood, or wear as a perfume on your neck and wrists.
Young Living also sells this scent in a massage oil, bath & shower gel and a body lotion. All infused with our 100% pure, therapeutic-grade essential oil.

Black Pepper and Peppermint
Why this duo? Black Pepper gives a little heat and Peppermint cools things off. The mixture is heavenly when applied to the thighs (3 drops of Black Pepper and 3 drops of Peppermint with 6-8 drops of a carrier oil) will definitely heat things up in the bedroom.

You can make your own personal lubricant with 1 oz of coconut oil, 5 drops of Sensation, 2 drops of Black Pepper and 2 drops of Peppermint. The floral scent of Sensation helps to create a romantic mood, while Black Pepper and Peppermint provide a warm/cool sensation. It’s heavenly.

And word to the wise, if you don’t already have coconut oil in your bedroom and bathroom – DO IT! It works amazingly as a personal lubricant, massage oil, moisturizer and so much more.

Made with bergamot, ylang ylang, geranium, lemon, coriander, tangerine, jasmine, Roman chamomile, rose and palmarosa, Joy has a similar scent to Sensation with stronger notes of geranium. It’s incredibly uplifting and helps to boost your mood. Wear it as perfume mixed with a little carrier oil. It smells divine when diffused and can really help to set a romantic mood.

Make your own intimate massage oil with Joy. Mix 5-7 drops of Joy with 1 oz. of coconut oil and store in a glass jar. When the mood strikes, use this as needed.

Ylang Ylang
With a faintly sweet floral scent similar to gardenia or plumeria, Ylang Ylang was used to cover the beds of newly married couples on their wedding night. It’s no surprise that blends like Sensation and Joy, which both help to promote romance, contain Ylang Ylang.

Wear Ylang Ylang as perfume, diffuse to set a romantic mood, and apply topically (neat or with a little coconut oil) on thighs, lower abdomen or VitaFlex points on the feet to inspire some fun in the bedroom. 

Idaho Blue Spruce
Idaho Blue Spruce is an exclusive oil that is distilled directly from Young Living’s St. Maries farm in Idaho. It has a masculine, evergreen pine scent that smells wonderful on men.

Mix Idaho Blue Spruce (5 drops) with Ylang Ylang (3 drops) in 1 oz of coconut oil to make a wonderful sensual massage oil just for men. Apply to the thighs and massage on his back to help set the mood. It can be used as a men’s cologne too.

Hong Kuai
Hong Kuai is a tree found in the mountain rainforests of Taiwan. It’s incredibly high in sesquiterpene content, which means Hong Kuai is like getting a boost of liquid confidence.

With its woodsy aroma, it’s perfect for men as a cologne. Here’s a great recipe to increase feelings of romance, perseverance, and confidence for men: Mix 2 drops of Hong Kuai, 1 drop of Ylang Ylang and 1 drop of Blue Spruce. Apply to thighs, neck and VitaFlex points on the feet.

Goldenrod helps to support the circulatory system. As the name suggests, Goldenrod can be used on well… let’s just say it will make a man feel like a king.

It can be applied to the lower abdomen, ankles, or VitaFlex points on the feet either neat or diluted.

Mister is a blend of sage, fennel, lavender, myrtle, peppermint, and blue yarrow in a base of sesame seed oil. It can be used as a men’s cologne and used to promote inner balance.

You can pair Mister with Idaho Blue Spruce and Ylang Ylang for an intoxicating, arousing massage oil and apply to the VitaFlex points on the feet, ankles and lower abdomen.

Clary Sage

Clary Sage is the equivalent to Mister but for women. It has a mild, warm herbal scent that is relaxing and helps to promote inner balance and reduce stress. It has natural phytoestrogens.

Combine a few drops of Clary Sage and Ylang Ylang or Sensation with a few drops of coconut oil for a sensual massage oil. Apply to the VitaFlex points on the feet, ankles and lower abdomen.

Lady Sclareol
Lady Sclareol is a blend of coriander, vetiver, geranium, orange, clary sage, ylang ylang, bergamot, royal hawaiian sandalwood, spanish sage, jasmine, spearmint and Idaho blue spruce. It has a seductive and alluring scent for both men and women – perfect for those special moments in the bedroom.

There are MANY other Young Living Essential Oils that are great to use in the bedroom to 
promote romance, increase libido, arouse the senses, support circulation & hormone function, and induce relaxation.

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